Halloween/ All Saints / All Souls Day

I am by no means religious but I am against hypocritical people in religion! Halloween as we know it in America is a Holiday branched off of the religious Christian and Catholic Holiday All Saints Day or All Souls Day. Halloween is the night before this which usually is taken upon by children to dress up and ask for treats. The reason they do this is in America is usually to commemorate or celebrate the lives of the living children. In European countries it is celebrated the same way and it is also celebrated like Mexico only the focus more on commemorating the death of children and infants where as Mexico is more broad. So I just thought I'd tell some more christian and catholics mainly christians and baptist about this because truthfully out of most of the religions they can sometimes be one of the most ill informed people. Saying Halloween is the Devil's holiday and its unholy and you shouldn't worship demons is not what the point of the holiday is! I despise the fact that religious people know nothing about the history of their religion and the holidays that their religion is based on. Please for the love of ___ whom ever you worship research your religion and its holidays before you jump to conclusions and call a persons religious views demonic when it is far from that. And I like catholics because most of them know about each holiday and its basis as do Jehovah witness KUDOS to you. This is just some useful information to people who criticize a religious holiday calling it demonic and you worship that religion!!!!! Gosh I hate hypocrits. Happy Halloween =)

Happy Birthday

Feliz Cumpleanos mi amor. Its also our 4 month anniversary! I love you so much I  hope you have the best bday of your entire life =).

Girl Gamers?

Today at dinner with my brother and his girlfriend we talked about the up and coming game Call of Duty: Black Ops! I am totally psyched about this game since I love MW2 and Black Ops is supposed to have new game types, weapons, and of course maps. I loved Gears of War 2 and the new weapons coming out reminds me of a few of their weapons. But back on topic, we talked about Black Ops and Halo 3 and the relationship between the two for about 20 minutes. I felt bad because I can go on and on about games, but his girlfriend looked a tad confused. I am like everygirl in the fact that I am kind of a girly girl so I can relate when it comes to fashion. But how come no girls can relate to me when it comes to games! Its so frustrating I feel like an alien amongst them when I speak gamer.

 I just feel that more girls should explore the gaming side of the world, though addicting it can be a great conversation and maybe even a catalyst for a relationship like in my case! My boyfriend loves the fact that I play games... maybe not that I can beat him at alot but the fact that I play! I have XBOX Live so if any girls or guys are intrested in knowing a Girl Game hit me up! Gamertag: Beezykins. I play MW2 if anyones intrested I hope alot of girls read this and go play a few games on their brother or boyfriends console. AND NO I DONT MEAN JUST DANCE! A shooting game(FPS) or maybe even something like Assasins Creed something gorey its so much fun great stress reliever... just try it =)

Ballroom Dance?

So I had this lady at my job (a customer) tell me that I should try ballroom dancing. Since I did modern, ballet, jazz, and contemporary it shouldn't be a problem. The reason I am not at a studio close to me is because its expensive and usually out of the way. So instead I have decided that starting Monday I will take ballroom classes maybe even pay the extra for a one on one session. I am kind of excited for a new style of dance, especially this one because my mom has been wanting me to do it since dancing with the stars started! lol . Plus this is a great way for me to get back in shape  I hear heels help alot. But I will see how it goes I hope I have fun.

P.S. I wore my XXI  skirt to work today and got so many compliments and looks so yay for dressing up everyday!

XXI Shopping Extravaganza

After I get over this shopping binge I will start posting about other things. But I bought about 20 items from XXI you do the math... yea basically 200 bucks. But it was well worth it and I found some more things that I seriously cant live without! 1) Stretch skirts http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=21%5Fitems&product%5Fid=2080949058&Page=all#
These skirts are adorable they fit perfectly, not to mention in store they're only 7.50! The material doesnt show every indent in your legs, which is usually a fear for most women wearing tight cotton skirts, but these fit perfect. They can also be dressed up or down because of their material.

2) XXI has new jewlery all the time im obsessed with rings and earrings though I did find a necklace but I realized I should get diverse gem earrings. That way I can wear more outfits with them! I found this one particular colored gem that I want MORE of lol. http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=acc&product%5Fid=1082540015&showBACK=OK#
These aren't my earring but these are the beads/gems that are on my teardrop earrings. The earrings are also a bit more vintage than this ring and have a bronze look to them.

3)XXI has amazing skinny jeans going for 17.80. I got navy ones, because they go so well with my off white and mustard tops that I have. I tried on the black ones, but they were to small  no more in my size, but they were such a deep black so they stood out very well.

These are just some tips if you plan on going to XXI and are looking for something in particular or a certain outfit for cheap These are pretty good priced items. I went to Charlotte Russe but they were rather overpriced... don't recommend going there it used to be a good bargain but now its a bit expensive.

P.S. I also got a Beatles shirt that  says Hey Jude its adorable!

Working hard to look good...

So I am not the type of girl to get dressed up to go to class. But the older I get the more I feel obligated to. I knew it was about that time when I said to my boyfriend I am gonna get my nails and eyebrows done, and he acted so surprised. So from now on I am going to work hard to look good. This includes at work since I sell shoes and women always ask my advice on fashion. So hopefully my online bargain shopping will pay off and I will have a closet full of new items I can show off everyday. I think every girl should try to look nice everyday, I don't wear make up but when I wear a nice outfit I easily feel like the prettiest girl in the room =). It also helps me with being on time, because instead of getting up late because I don't have much to do, I get up earlier and end up getting a lot more done!

Though I do make getting dressed easy as possible! Cute tops Jeans/skirt/shorts and adorable flip flops... topped off with incredible acessories of course. I don't like sneakers unless I am working out because its not very girly to me and makes your legs look shorter. But if its hard for a you to get dressed in the morning prepare the night before that includes putting on the outfit! There has been plenty of days I laid an outfit out but hated how it looked after I put it on!lol

I got you babe!...

I have a boyfriend his names Carlos.
We've been dating almost 4 months now. He sucks at scrabble but is quite frankly one of the nicest guys I know. There is a distance of approximately 1,105 miles between us. The distance is hard and but we still manage to talk to eachother. I know the likely hood of long distance relationships is low, but Carlos is well worth that risk. I am happy I have such a good boyfriend who shows affection, communicates, and gets me great FOREVER 21 clothes lol jk. But of course in every relationship theres trials but I still got you babe I <3 you Carlitoooo!

-Becky

Online Shopping

So I am slowly but surely replacing my closet from old clothes, shoes, and boots to new trendier ones. I have found only 2 sites that accommodate my preference which has become boyfriend style or dolman styled shirts or eccentric patterned tops also loose fitting. Jeans I have but need replacements and patterned skirts are also much needed as well as knew fashionable sandals. The two sites I shop is www.yesstyle.com and www.forever21.com. Greatly priced clearance or fabulous finds in 21's case. I work at JCPenney so I find good levis and shoes for rather cheap especially during coupon days. I want to find more online sites that are good but so far those are the top in my book. Large selection and great quality, as well as different style accommodations. Check these places out for some incredible online shopping!

OH and great accessories and their is a mens section in yesstyle good looking stuff!

....Thats so GAY!!!

So repealing of don't ask dont tell is coming up. How dare those gays be in the military distract 100% straight men from serving our country, bringing everyone down with their gay tendencies, and making straight guys scared of getting raped by them or god forbid hit on! I mean what person can focus knowing a person might be attracted to them! OH ... wait we all do we all deal with it everyday, and its the least of worries majority of the time. So maybe just maybe when you join the military and bullets a wizzing past your face, thinking is the person next to you might be homosexual just might be THE LEAST of your worries. And if that is what you are thinking your serving the wrong country because in the military you fight for freedom. Freedom to pursue happiness, religion, and speak your mind.

But I mean being gay is so a choice I mean falling in love is so B.S. So they should not get to marry. Come on White people had the choice to be with a different race just not Blacks they are not to mix races like that! Interracial marriage how dare they!! Thats like a Jew wanting to be with a Christian DISGUSTING SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED! Oh.... wait that was declared wrong a long time ago...but for what reason? Oh yea because even if your both make a choice to want to spend the rest of your lives together its a freedom that you should have the government can't tell you who you can and can't marry because all people have rights. BUT gays are different the bible doesn't like them... But wait aren't we supposed to be open minded to all religions beliefs and acustoms. Atheist don't agree to this so what about them. Well marriage is only if you agree with the bible... but milllions of atheist, islamic, buddist people get married in america for the benefits and do it under a non religious government marriage so they get the 1,000+ benefits of marriage from insurance breaks, custody, inheritance, death benefits, and something usually important medical decisions on behalf of a partner. Wow so who else can't get married... non americans right ... wait oh they can get married in america .... ummm oh just gays sucks for them!

I posted this on facebook I'll keep you updated on the responses!

Becky Harry

Feels like putting something controversial on facebook. To those who oppose gay marriage/rights because of religious backgrounds, do you also feel the same towards people of a different religion? And what about freedom of relgion and pursuit of happiness does it not apply if you have a certain preference? And if you oppose it for a diffferent reason why? I just got really curious about other peoples views. =)

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The Point

So the point of my blog is to bring up some of the most controversial things on television, from fashion to politics. I am an Advertisement student in college, my name is Becky Harry, and quite frankly I am considered highly opinionated. I come from a christian family, but am far from a christian. I am open minded when it comes to religion from catholic to buddist. I think of what is morally right and scientifically possible. I am still a woman so of course I am obsessed with fashion! I love Forever 21 and Charlotte Russe and am obsessed with having "the perfect outfit". I am also an animal lover, as my two guinea pigs Bubbie and Laila can tell you. I watch television and see some hilarious, yet unsettling things that go over looked by many that watch. One thing that is out of the ordinary that I like is video games. So the point of this blog and what I feel like my purpose in life is, is to enlighten everyone, or those who care, on important and trendy topics. So stick around and think about it, or give me a comment! <3 Bee